This week I lost a friend….

Old Mr. Wally breathed his last on this earth on Monday August 1, 2011.
He came to us just over a year ago after being dumped on the streets of Orange County. From his appearance it was apparent that he had a hard life – no doubt neglected and possibly abused for all of his estimated ten years of age. When I first saw him in ICU at Dr. K’s, he was recovering from surgery to remove multiple tumors, on medication for demodex mange, and was skinny as a rail – he looked like a train wreck! I opened his crate and he tried to crawl into my lap – that was the beginning of what was to be an intimate relationship, in more ways than one!
When I first brought him home he was so weak he could barely walk, and over the ensuing year, there were many visits to Dr. K’s for bandage changes, re-stitching and re-stapling of incisions (he had another surgery to remove a malignant mast-cell tumor), bouts of vomiting and diarrhea as we tried to stabilize his diet and put some weight on him, and a battle with anemia. Each time I feared he was losing the battle, but Wally came back stronger every time – this boy was a fighter!
Wally was always a “skinny old man”, but in his heart he was the “leader of the pack”. He made himself known with a commanding, trumpeting bark that let you know who was in charge! He immediately asserted his “alpha-ness” over our two pugs Ruby and Bosley, and became their “lord and master.” With other bulldogs, however, he often found that others were more than willing and able to answer his challenges, hence he wasn’t easy to place for adoption. On the other hand, he did love humans of all ages, and especially enjoyed getting out and meeting new people – he was truly a “social butterfly.” That under-bite and “snaggle-tooth” face were always sure to draw a crowd!
Over the past year I have had the honor and privilege to care for this special guy, and through it all I have learned so much. Our daily routine of feeding, cleaning, medications – and of course wiping his wrinkled butt
– was also a bonding ritual, and I learned his rhythms just as I know he tuned into mine. But I also learned for myself about patience, commitment, and most of all “living in the moment.”
When Wally collapsed this past Sunday – he was staying with another foster home at the time – I rushed to him and realized that this was a setback from which he would not be fighting back – by this time I knew him so well. His old heart was failing, and we all knew his time with us was growing short. I took him home and he spent the night with me and his old bunk-buddy Bosley the pug. The next day, with Skip and I at his side, he crossed the bridge ……
May you rest in peace my “Wally-Boy-Man” – you will always be in my heart!
Joel B.